It is true that there are some tricky nuances to what makes a decision or thought pattern part of the dieter’s mindset or not. It can often be confusing and hard to tell the difference. But here is a handy question you can ask yourself when you are in doubt.
Am I tolerating the behaviour for the time it takes me to reach my goal weight – OR – can I enjoy this habit/lifestyle going forward as someone who weighs less?
One of the biggest differences between what we are doing in the Weighless method and a traditional diet is that the changes we are making are for life. That is why we place so much importance on not relying on willpower or trying to scrounge up motivation.
While a diet relies on you gritting your teeth, digging deep into your willpower, and counting down the days until you can return to “normal” we want you to avoid all of that and instead create a relationship with food and movement that will last forever.
So if you find yourself wondering if you are engaged in dieter thinking, ask yourself if you could do ______ forever. That will likely answer your question.